tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.comments2023-05-10T06:57:57.048-07:00I'm Working From The Inside Outimworkingfromtheinsideouthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00703578124802725381noreply@blogger.comBlogger121125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-74050505094061357712012-03-18T08:10:46.005-07:002012-03-18T08:10:46.005-07:00I feel your pain. I am suffering same shit in my l...I feel your pain. I am suffering same shit in my life. That involves my fucking in-laws who thinks they are angel and my own fucking mother.....ican relate in everything you said. It is very hard to be mad at all times because it is ruining everything in your life with no emotional support from my dumb husband.Tinkerbellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13952472448861222370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-21274603706111759252012-01-15T12:17:09.735-08:002012-01-15T12:17:09.735-08:00I thought this is what I wanted, but I really just...I thought this is what I wanted, but I really just want to be left alone. I wonder if it's because she doesn't have a sibling to pester? I don't play with her, as I've never played with children. I leave that up to her uncle and grandparents. I do the yelling and other necessities, and nurse her when she's sick (I do feel bad when she's sick). I rather do my own thing. <brAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-53336633211977001862011-06-25T23:40:20.967-07:002011-06-25T23:40:20.967-07:00Please don't think you've failed, if you h...Please don't think you've failed, if you have provided for your son everything that he has ever truly needed for so long he knows he can count on you always :) we teenagers are stubborn and young and we want to be independent but never think we will leave those who love us and took care of us, behind.Stumbling On Happinesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13367395492512503730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-51865435060625567052011-05-13T14:30:52.018-07:002011-05-13T14:30:52.018-07:00As for the kind of parent you were during his firs...As for the kind of parent you were during his first 18 years, just apologize to him (maybe when things calm down) and let him know how you feel. He'll either feel better that you're owning up to your shortcomings or he'll tell you that you weren't as bad as you think you are. I've done that with my daughter over the past few years because I DID make some terrible mistakes, LivinLargehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07555338975051457790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-34697023454746265842011-05-13T14:30:31.523-07:002011-05-13T14:30:31.523-07:00I'm sorry to read that you are both hurting so...I'm sorry to read that you are both hurting so much. I won't tell you that things aren't as bad as they seem. I will tell you that every parent reaches a point with their children when they have to tell them exactly what you told your son. My moment came just over 2 years ago, shortly before my daughter turned 17. She verbally and emotionally attacked me because she didn't like LivinLargehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07555338975051457790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-48407972210687666612011-05-06T10:30:42.956-07:002011-05-06T10:30:42.956-07:00very touchy. love your writing skill.
pease vist m...very touchy. love your writing skill.<br />pease vist my blog whenever possible and give me your valuable feedbacks:)<br />http://livelifewithluv.blogspot.com/Sreehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14462406466899195388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-71285255914245977552011-04-11T09:28:28.760-07:002011-04-11T09:28:28.760-07:00I am not Korean but it is amazing how alike our li...I am not Korean but it is amazing how alike our lives are. My brother (the only son) lived in my mother's basement for the past decade or so, and most of the time he did not have a job. He did very little to help her. As for me, I am the youngest of 3 daughters, and I am treated the worst. I am expected to do whatever mom wants (luckily this doesn't happen often), and I am supposed to LivinLargehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07555338975051457790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-48636892512464569362011-04-10T13:29:08.614-07:002011-04-10T13:29:08.614-07:00hope your mom feels better soon. yikes.hope your mom feels better soon. yikes.rosieyatchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14440036122963588672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-22254277514025345522011-04-09T10:33:40.698-07:002011-04-09T10:33:40.698-07:00Everything I have read on your blog is osmething I...Everything I have read on your blog is osmething I have felt or struggled with, and I love your title "Working from the Inside Out." For the first time in my life I'm focusing on what's inside of me instead of the influences from outside of me. I've lived my life like I'm the ball in a pinball machine, just bouncing off the criticisms of one person after another. I guessLivinLargehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07555338975051457790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-19887212610183502022011-04-07T10:05:48.844-07:002011-04-07T10:05:48.844-07:00Thank you for your kind words and insights. It'...Thank you for your kind words and insights. It's always amazing how we can connect with others online by our writings because in many ways we are alike more than we know. <br /><br />I'm happy in that I'm able to control my emotions, not falling apart as I had been in the last several years. But being able to express myself in the right context.imworkingfromtheinsideouthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00703578124802725381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-33139559750754645892011-04-06T11:59:28.132-07:002011-04-06T11:59:28.132-07:00I am so happy for you. What you wrote is something...I am so happy for you. What you wrote is something I've been actively working on for the past few months. Last year was a terrible year, and it was literally one thing on top of another that was sitting next to something else LOL. I can laugh a bit now but it was really awful. the thing is, I'm still here and most of those problems are fixed and gone. Life will never be calmer, although LivinLargehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07555338975051457790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-83866086710473564192011-04-04T15:04:47.905-07:002011-04-04T15:04:47.905-07:00Good for you! I hope you continue to feel better :...Good for you! I hope you continue to feel better :-DLivinLargehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07555338975051457790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-22856288858976399192011-04-04T15:03:17.345-07:002011-04-04T15:03:17.345-07:00It's starting to sound like you have some anxi...It's starting to sound like you have some anxiety or depression, and if this is the case, you'll find it difficult at best to keep moving forward. Talk to your doctor about some mild meds to help you relax and then talk with a therapist to work through these bad feelings and thoughts you have. I've been there, many of us have, and it's no way to live.LivinLargehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07555338975051457790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-69409090610750244432011-04-04T14:57:46.581-07:002011-04-04T14:57:46.581-07:00My daughter, who just turned 19, is finishing up h...My daughter, who just turned 19, is finishing up her first year of college. High school was bad. She's always been smart, ahead of most of her peers, but she discovered a social life in her teen years. I did everything a parent could possibly do to make her take school more seriously. I finally gave in during her junior year. She explained some choices she had made (her reasons impressed me) LivinLargehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07555338975051457790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-80185690282512570322011-04-04T14:46:27.162-07:002011-04-04T14:46:27.162-07:00I agree with KP, rant away. I've just recently...I agree with KP, rant away. I've just recently started reading blogs, and I have noticed that every woman's blog I follow have in common an unhappiness with their current lives (my blog is like this too). We are all striving to do better, but we are oftentimes drowning in overwhelming responsibilities. I find it terribly interesting that, regardless of the how differently we all live, LivinLargehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07555338975051457790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-971647951399048232011-03-04T19:54:47.976-08:002011-03-04T19:54:47.976-08:00You are too hard on yourself, my friend. I wish I...You are too hard on yourself, my friend. I wish I could make it better for you.KPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13735984418921754028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-9473178788946826182011-02-15T22:27:09.802-08:002011-02-15T22:27:09.802-08:00It is not only you, Me too! i completely relate t...It is not only you, Me too! i completely relate to your blog, I could have write your words myself, except that I do not yell/get angry to my child but I so want to do it, so i keep it to myself( Which at the end is worse). What can I say, just waiting for my child to grow up while I suffer from this horrible gastric reflux and hypertension caused for stress and anxiety.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04317123472493953519noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-51879029997932240972011-02-12T18:46:48.238-08:002011-02-12T18:46:48.238-08:00Deja todo a la suerte, la familia a veces apestaDeja todo a la suerte, la familia a veces apestaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-74009093705043645932011-02-08T20:18:20.597-08:002011-02-08T20:18:20.597-08:00Sometimes ranting is the best medicine. (((hugs))...Sometimes ranting is the best medicine. (((hugs)))KPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13735984418921754028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-4097242027388092542010-12-23T19:29:16.093-08:002010-12-23T19:29:16.093-08:00Hey, I just started following you, cowheeangie.
I ...Hey, I just started following you, cowheeangie.<br />I am Korean American too, and after I read your blog post, I felt it was really deep. I hope you feel better.Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16815837806733315722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-66113554046487990142010-12-22T19:47:03.402-08:002010-12-22T19:47:03.402-08:00I wish I could make it all better. You are here fo...I wish I could make it all better. You are here for a reason. You have a purpose. You were wonderfully and perfectly made. And you are loved beyond measure. You have a family that not only needs you(which may feel burdensome sometimes), but that loves you. You are an amazing, smart, witty, beautiful woman. <br />Your mistakes do not define you. <br />Get up. Dust yourself off. <br />Believe KPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13735984418921754028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-73981245831509967192010-04-12T22:30:29.863-07:002010-04-12T22:30:29.863-07:00congrats on your new job. make sure you have time...congrats on your new job. make sure you have time for yourself...you deserve it.rosieyatchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14440036122963588672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-64528631491971919662010-03-28T22:05:05.999-07:002010-03-28T22:05:05.999-07:00I'm sorry you're having a rough time. And...I'm sorry you're having a rough time. And what is up with the MIL toting around the 4 yr old? Maybe she will volunteer to take your daughter with her on her next vacation with other family members...ugh! <br />Don't be too hard on yourself. And don't try to be everybody's everything. You are wonderful and you are important. Take time to decompress. You deserve it!KPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13735984418921754028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-82515914496595759102010-02-23T08:28:55.035-08:002010-02-23T08:28:55.035-08:00my sweet child....I am having a "shitty day&q...my sweet child....I am having a "shitty day" so out of boredom and frustration I typed in "shitty day" and up came you and yours...It was like I was feeling the pain of my own daughter as I read your words....my daughter is "bi-polar"due to illness...she also has a infant daughter....I wanted to comfort you and give you love and encouragement...I know you not yet I Mamas Musingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15196577129460970089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7782858622658851033.post-62314754501878324332010-02-17T10:19:53.847-08:002010-02-17T10:19:53.847-08:00Sometimes life is shitty and we feel shitty as a r...Sometimes life is shitty and we feel shitty as a result. <br /><br />People are generally not open minded and will try to corral and correct you until you go mad. And then you, in turn, will do the same thing albeit in a different way to someone else and the spiral continues.Existential Funkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04861301324815984445noreply@blogger.com